Sex

Tell him I’ve been too fucking busy - or vice versa. (Dorothy Parker)


Found on the web, made me laugh:

Fire Fighters Are Hot“But, as I’ve said before, if I had to, I mean had to, it would be with Elvis, Mister Clean, or a firefighter.”

One thing we can all agree upon is that firefighters are hot. And I don’t mean hot like on fire literally, I mean hot like on fire figuratively. Look, I’m a red blooded American hetero SkinnySlim, and I have never participated in any homosexual activity. Unless of course you consider fantasizing about myself while staring at photos of myself in skimpy outfits to be homosexual. Personally, I just consider it irresistible. But, as I’ve said before, if I had to, I mean had to, it would be with Elvis, Mister Clean, or a firefighter. So who could blame the homosexual community of San Diego for cat calling firefighters as they drove their red truck along the Gay Pride Parade route?

- SkinnySlim



Over at Boing Boing, Cory Doctorow observes how ICANN policy initiatives would require “… that some perfectly infallible institution be set up to rake in gigantic profits from the sex industry while accurately dividing all material on the web into ‘porn’ and ‘not-porn.’ “

Wendy Seltzer has a great essay up today about the process by which ICANN is allocating new top-level domains (TLDs, like .com, .net, .org, and so forth). Wendy is the copyfighting civil liberties cyberlawyer who founded Chilling Effects and previously worked with me at the Electronic Frontier Foundation. She’s served on the ICANN board for years — this is the US-chartered corporation that oversees the domain name system, the only really centrally governed piece of the entire Internet.

ICANN has been thrashing for years over the creation of more TLDs, like “.sex” — the idea is to recapture the edenic glory days when all .COMs were companies, all .ORGs were educational institutions and all .WS sites were in Western Samoa. A .sex TLD would be overseen so that only porn sites got .sex domains, and so that porn sites would be forced out of the .com/net/org spaces. This merely requires that some perfectly infallible institution be set up to rake in gigantic profits from the sex industry while accurately dividing all material on the web into “porn” and “not-porn.” Simple.

[Boing Boing]

One more time, with feeling:

This merely requires that some perfectly infallible institution be set up to rake in gigantic profits from the sex industry while accurately dividing all material on the web into “porn” and “not-porn.” Simple.

The good news: “Another faction has bigger ideas: they want to blow the lid off of DNS, to allow for the creation of an infinite number of TLDs. Wendy is in this faction and in “Aging the Internet Prematurely,” she sets out a stirring call-to-arms for the TLD multiverse.”

See Aging the Internet Prematurely, One PDP at a Time by Wendy Seltzer



Gene Krupa“Music is sex.”
- Dick Dale

… I used to love to listen to Gene Krupa records, you know, and Gene Krupa drumming, because he was … you know, music is sex. It’s a sensual driving mode that affects people if it’s played a certain way, and Gene Krupa was smart enough to go, and for instance, study the natives … went into the jungle to study their fertility dances, what caused them to be mesmerized … the drummer played on a beat …. Gene Krupa wanted to know why … what is it that made people mesmerized. Now what it was was that the natives would create these fertility dances and they would use these rhythms on logs but they kept it simple and they kept it thriving and they kept it driving, they didn’t break it. They’d go ding ding-dah dah ding ding-dah dah ding ding-dah and they would keep that always going.

… Krupa somehow mesmerized the audience more so than any drummer in the world

… Gene Krupa had something. So he kept it going, just going doom bada doom bada doom bada doom badada he kept that going. So what happens when you go doom bada doom bada doom bada biddli-ba-da-doo, you wake people up …

… Sexual, sensual, guttural sound, that throbbing sound is where it’s at.

[Dick Dale @ roctober.com ]

Dick Dale, King of the Surf Guitar
See Also:

Dick Dale @ Wikipedia

Dick Dale Interview @ YouTube



ventral tegmental areaInvestigating the neurophysiology of love and sex

By studying MRI brain scans of people newly in love, scientists are learning a lot about the science of love: Why love is so powerful, and why being rejected is so horribly painful.

In a group of experiments, Dr. Lucy Brown, a professor in the department of neurology and neuroscience at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine in New York, and her colleagues did MRI brain scans on college students who were in the throes of new love.

While being scanned, the students looked at a photo of their beloved. The scientists found that the caudate area of the brain — which is involved in cravings — became very active. Another area that lit up: the ventral tegmental, which produces dopamine, a powerful neurotransmitter that affects pleasure and motivation.

DopamineDr. Brown said scientists believe that when you fall in love, the ventral tegmental floods the caudate with dopamine. The caudate then sends signals for more dopamine.

“The more dopamine you get, the more of a high you feel,” Dr. Brown says.

Love or sex? … Brains in love and brains in lust don’t look too much alike.

In studies when researchers showed erotic photos to people as they underwent brain scans, they found activity in the hypothalamus and amygdala areas of the brain. The hypothalamus controls drives like hunger and thirst and the amygdala handles arousal, among other things.

In the studies of people in love, “we didn’t find activity in either,” according to Dr. Fisher, an anthropologist and author of “Why We Love — the Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love.”

… At some point, the two do become linked. People in love have elevated levels of dopamine. Lots of dopamine, in turn, triggers the production of testosterone, which is responsible for the sex drive in both men and women.

… In their work with the lovestruck, the scientists found brain differences between men and women.

“The men had quite a bit more activity in the brain region that integrates visual stimuli. This isn’t surprising considering that men support the porn industry and women spend their lives trying to look good for men,” says Dr. Fisher.

… The scientists found that women in love had more activity than men in the areas of the brain that govern memories. Dr. Fisher theorizes that this is a “female mechanism for mate choice.” There are no visual clues for whether a man is fertile, but if a woman really studies a man and remembers things about his behavior, she can try to determine whether he’d make a reliable mate and father.

… Now their research is centered on the flip side of love. They’ve recruited college students who’d just been rejected by their sweethearts. Again, the scientists performed MRI’s while these students looked at photos of the objects of their affection.

This time, the results were different, Dr. Brown says. The insular cortex, the part of the brain that experiences physical pain, became very active.

“People came out of the machine crying,” she said.

[Elizabeth Cohen: cnn.com]